My first day home as a freelance writer felt like pure freedom. I could get up any time I wanted and work only started when I felt like it. It only lasted for a day because I just didn’t make any money. I needed to commit to a full work day if I was ever going to make a dent in our household expenses. Add to this the fact that my husband comes home around 3:30 PM and you can imagine the amount of frustration on his part if I only start work at that time.
Make Full Use of Those Peaceful Hours
If your household tends to be one that only rises at around 8 or 9 AM, you have a perfect window for calm writing from around 6 or 7 AM. You can enjoy the calm of the morning while everyone else is still sleeping. One of my freelance friends gets up at 3 AM to take advantage of the calm. Once she’s dropped off the kids at school, she only has a few more things to take care of and then has the rest of the day all to herself. Your sweet spot could be when everyone is off to work and school, or when everyone goes to bed.
My Ideal Writing Day
For me, the sweet spot is 6:30 AM. I try to work through social media and emails as fast as possible and plan out the day ahead. By 7 AM I’m ready to write and do so steadily until around 8:30 AM. This is usually when hubby wakes up and does his thing, so I like spending a bit of time with him before he leaves. When he goes I take care of some chores and depending on the state of the house, this usually goes until 10 or 11 AM, after which I have a shower. I work until about 12:30 and then have a quick lunch and check social media again.
By 1 PM I’m writing again and this carries on until 2:30 PM when I have a short break. I then carry on until around 5 PM. At this time, hubby is tired of watching TV and fiddling around the house and we go for a brisk walk in the park. We’re back by 6 PM and after showering, he sets off to the kitchen to whip up a delectable dish and I carry on with the writing. After dinner, I take care of the dishes and we settle down for the evening. We love watching series and movies and can binge-watch like champions.
But This All Changed When I Fell Pregnant
The Good Days
Now sleep is the top priority. I go to bed far earlier than before and find myself unable to get up until at least 8 or 9 AM. First priority is to get something into my stomach before nausea strikes and then I do a few chores (hubby is helping out with the heavier stuff). I usually start writing at around 10:30 AM and carry on until my little bean cries out for food again. I do keep snacks around so I don’t waste too much time hunting for food. Once I’m in a rhythm, I find I can write for hours on end with small pauses in between. I can write up to 6 PM without a hassle and still work in an hour of swimming during the day. But then everything just switches off and I simply can’t carry on anymore. In the beginning, my productivity lagged quite a bit because I still needed to work in a nap, sometimes two a day. Now I can go a whole day without napping.
The Tumultuous Days
I’ve recently learned that nausea, fatigue, and acid reflux work together as a team and always show up to the party together. At first, this only happened when I smelt something I had an aversion to or when I was presented with a meal that didn’t particularly agree with my little bean. Now, at 12-13 weeks, it can trigger at the drop of the hat and sometimes I find myself waking up with the toxic trio. When that happens, I just drop my head back on the pillow, eat as many dry crackers as I can stomach, and wait it out.
Sometimes I fall back asleep and other times I don’t. It’s better when I do. This can go on for hours and staring at a computer screen somehow makes it worse. There are short periods where things tend to go a bit better and I try to get as much done as possible. When the short periods of feeling “okay” are over, I simply set the laptop down again and try to sleep. Breathing exercises seem to help a lot too. My productivity really suffers on these days, but luckily I have more good days than bad.
Quick Tips to Make Full Use of Your Writing Hours
- Take a few minutes to write down exactly what you want to accomplish the next day.
- Allocate decent time slots to each project. If you know it takes you 30 minutes to write a 250-word piece, don’t allocate 15 minutes and try and push yourself. Burnout happens and you may not be able to keep it up the next day.
- Try to group similar projects together. This helps you to follow the same train of thought which can make the projects go a little faster.
- Give yourself mini breaks. This helps for those who need to eat every 2-hours (pregnant mommas!) or check on chores such as laundry and time-sensitive things. It also helps to get that circulation going again after sitting for so long.
- When you’re done with your work day, make a list for the following day and switch off. Don’t go back and check projects unless you have to in the case of urgent edits. If it’s not urgent, it’s not worth taking time away from your family.
- Keep tabs of projects that are due by a certain date. When you have good days and finish earlier than you thought you would, it’s a good idea to take on some of these projects. You never know when your productivity might be off again.
There are going to be days where the deadlines overlap and you find yourself working the 12-hour shifts, but those days shouldn’t be the norm. If it is, you may want to consider projects that pay a little better. Whether you’re working from home out of choice or necessity, the experience should be an enjoyable one.